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Post by Kelsey Rachel LeBlanc on Jan 14, 2010 19:49:59 GMT -5
You know what I hate? Over controlling girlfriends. You know what sucks? My best guy friend is in a relationship with one of these girls. So basically, I had warned him before he went out with this girl that she would have problems with our friendship and of coarse, being a guy, he said no no and left it at that. Well, about 4 months later, guess what? His girlfriend decided to put her foot down.
Basically, me and my friend were having a conversation over msn one night. His girlfriend apparently dropped in and he x'ed off our convo, making the bitchy girlfriend very mad. She got angry, very angry, and told him that he was not allowed to talk to me anymore. She blamed all their fighting on me and how I am the cause of it all. Which is not true!
So, when my dear friend told me this, he was like we just have to lay low for a day or two. Like seriously, WTF?! Lay low? Are we spies or something? I told him he should let her control his life and blah blah. So the point is, he listened to his girlfriend. We usually talk every day on msn and text each other and talk at school. It been three days, and he has not spoke to me nor acknowledged my existence. I just lost like one of the best friends I've ever had because of some bitch of a girlfriend. What do I do?! I am so confused! |
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Post by gracieharrison on Jan 14, 2010 19:56:30 GMT -5
sweetheart I hate to say it but it's happened to me too. Once, with my ex before we went out, and once (most recently) with my best friend. The one with my ex ended up alright till he dumped me, but the one with my best friend was similar to yours. Another of my friends' brother went through it (but he was the guy with the crazy gf). All I can say for advice is tell him how you feel. Like, now. Make it blatantly clear that he is being a freakin' PRICK and that he needs to get his s**t in order. In the meantime, make it seem like it doesn't bother you, or you can just act as mad at him as you really are when he's around. He needs to get it through his head that it's not hos before bros (or, in this case, friends).
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Post by crayonz on Jan 15, 2010 14:04:29 GMT -5
Love, if he was a real friend he would tell his girl to fuck off, and to leave you and him alone. Because if there was an type of romanticism I pretty sure it would be fully known. And like Rachel said it's not ho's before bro's. So, if his girlfriend is going to be like that, and he isn't talking to you because of that ho. Then don't be his friend anymore. And if he was really your friend he would realize he just lost a good friend for some bitch who's green w/ jealousy.
But, that's coming from one side of my brain. The other side says to beat the shit out of both of them. c: |
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Post by Kelsey Rachel LeBlanc on Jan 17, 2010 21:03:19 GMT -5
So Basically the guy had texted my friend and told her to text me to say that he was sorry and he would explain everything on Wednesday. like wft?! I have no clue whats going on ! HELP!
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Post by adrienne on Jan 17, 2010 21:15:03 GMT -5
Bitch movie on his part. He should have texted you, not someone else.
Honey, guys get wrapped up in girls like that. My advice is don't fight for him, it'll just make matters worse. Guys are not worth fighting over if they can't choose for their damn selves.
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Post by PASCAL , on Jan 19, 2010 16:25:53 GMT -5
he's kissing his girlfriend's ass.
and when someone chooses his girlfriend over his friends there's something wrong.
this bitch seriously needs to grow up, so confront her, or confront him, wether he likes it or not.
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Post by Kelsey Rachel LeBlanc on Jan 20, 2010 15:28:28 GMT -5
So here is an update:
My friend finally did talk to me today.
His girlfriend told him not to talk to me for a week to see if they would still fight.
Turns out they did.
So like it wasn't even my fault.
We are friends again, and him and his girlfriend got into a major fight. They might be broken up, but probably not.
He asked me to go over Friday night so I can help him study for math.
Would it be a good idea to go?
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Post by jessamyn on Jan 20, 2010 16:41:45 GMT -5
NO! Do not go over to his house, or if you do, don't go at night.
It'll just throw that girl over the edge.
Meet some where public, if possible.
If you go over there, right after their fight, it'll make the other girl feel like she was right, that there was more to you and him. And that you're preying on his weakness.
Don't go Kelsey.
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Post by Kelsey Rachel LeBlanc on Jan 23, 2010 13:48:01 GMT -5
So, I went over. I actually didn't read what you said j, until just now. But everything is fine now. His girlfriend was totally cool with it and we are all mellow now. She was having her birthday sleepover that night anyways, but she could of came along if she wanted to. No one is angry, no one is fighting, and finally, everything is calm. Thanks for the advice everyone! =]
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